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What if…I’m not there to care?

Our 2024 survey reveals that over three quarters of dementia carers, who are looking after a spouse, partner or parent, have no alternative care plan in place for when they can’t care.

Due to strain on my own health, I worry I will have a heart attack before my husband passes. Then he will have no one to care for him. Anonymous dementia carer, 2024 Dementia Carers Count Survey

2024 Dementia Carers Count survey results

We all know someone who is caring for someone else. Our survey reveals that most family carers have no alternative care plans in place.

Many carers worry about what will happen if they aren’t there to care. Some have already experienced challenges accessing healthcare for themselves due to their caring responsibilities.

Our survey report puts alternative care plans in the spotlight

Over 1,200 dementia carers shared their insights with us in our 2024 survey and we are extremely grateful to everyone who participated.

Our findings reveal how unexpected events put a huge strain on carers, which can result in negative consequences for their health and well-being. In our report we share some of the personal testimonies we received and recommend what support dementia carers should get.

Read our report, ‘What if… I’m not there to care?’

Challenges faced by dementia carers

Inside our report you’ll discover Lisa’s story. When no one else was available to care for her husband, who has mixed dementia, she had to cancel surgery.

Read Lisa’s story
Read Lisa’s story
Often carers worry about what will happen if they can’t care, but they don’t know who to talk to and what alternative arrangements might be possible. Steve Dubbins, Director of Services, Dementia Carers Count

Supporting dementia carers to develop a contingency care plan

Contingency care arrangements are plans for when unpaid carers are unable to provide care. For example, this could be in the short term due to a hospital stay or in the long term because they become too frail to cope with the physical demands of caring.

Not having alternative arrangements in place for a loved one with dementia creates huge anxiety, worry and stress for individual carers.

Dementia carers must be supported to discuss and outline what they would like to happen should they be unable to care. They should also have confidence that their wishes will be acted on. Any contingency or alternative care arrangements which are agreed must be flexible and reviewed regularly to ensure they continue to meet carers’ changing situations and needs. Helen Pyper, Head of Policy and Campaigns

Three key recommendations to support dementia carers with alternative care planning

National governments must implement carers’ strategies, which outline carers’ rights and what support they should receive.

National carers’ strategies should include provision for regular, proactively offered and frequently reviewed, assessments of carers’ needs and plans for contingency or alternative care.

Adult social care must be adequately resourced to enable delivery of national carers’ strategies so that what exists on paper is delivered.

Contingency plans need to be recorded in a carer’s health and care record. This needs to be shared with all involved in providing care to the person with dementia when needed. 

At Dementia Carers Count we campaign for change

We will share our 2024 survey findings with local and national decision-makers across the UK. By acting on our recommendations, governments and local authorities, as well as health and care commissioners and health and social care professionals, can better support dementia carers. This will help more carers cope today and also plan for tomorrow.

We’re inviting carers to share their stories

We’re collecting dementia carers’ experiences to highlight the importance of alternative care arrangements. If you’re a dementia carer and have had a positive or challenging experience, please let us know what happened. Perhaps you struggled to continue caring when an unexpected event happened or perhaps you found writing a contingency care plan gave you peace of mind.

We will share our collection of stories with change-makers and decision-makers, including the Secretary of State for Health and Social Care, later this year.

What if…your story could make a difference?

If you are a dementia carer, you may have faced an unexpected situation when you were unable to care. Or you may be worried about the future. Can you share your story? You can help us ensure that dementia carers get the support they need to plan for when they’re not there to care.

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